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so sorry that I put my family in such a horrific situation. The reality is, the guy I lived with was the same guy that bit up [Evander] Holyfield's ear in the ring. That's the guy I was dealing with on a daily basis; the same guy that went to jail for rape [Robin is speaking of Tyson's 1992 rape conviction]. I was dealing with that guy the best way I could at 22 years old. I interviewed Mike, about seven years ago, and I liked him during our interview. Of course, it was so many years later. I don't want to take away from his ability to change and grow as a person. But what you experienced is valid and real, and your feelings about it are valid and very real. Your voice also continues to be valuable regarding domestic violence. RG: I've done a lot of work with women, and it's not only happening with celebrities, obviously. It's the guy at the golf club in Connecticut that everybody loves. It's the mayor of a small town who's sweet and charming in public. I don't want to make this [issue] all about me. With everything that is going on with the #MeToo movement, we're kind of forcing a lot of men to get that certain things are unacceptable. Certain things now, thirty years later, must be unacceptable. We have to do better now. You began speaking up about violence against women years before the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements took root. RG: I didn't plan on speaking on behalf of women, but it really did become a part of my healing. My ex-husband had been on Oprah and he had talked about hitting me in a cavalier way, like, "Oh, yeah, I hit her," and everybody [in the audience] laughed. I was somewhere doing a speaking engagement, and someone said to me, "Robin, you can't take this!" I realized it was far bigger than me and I was told I had to do something, if not for me, then for all other women. One of the things I always say is, "My story is your story, and your story is my story." That was when you had that sit-down with Oprah to air your grievances about Mike Tyson's appearance on her show… RG: I sat down with Oprah to discuss her interview with my ex- husband, which was the last thing I wanted to do. She apologized to me. After the show, she came into my dressing room and she said, "Robin, as it was happening, I knew it was wrong, but I didn't know what to do." I think that sums up a lot. Not to put the weight of the world on Oprah. Certainly, she is an amazing, amazing woman. But if Oprah Winfrey doesn't know what to do in these situations, the discomfort of it, then a lot of us don't know how to respond to that. It's much easier to put people in a box and say, "She must have wanted his money," than to believe that somebody could punch a 105-pound woman. We saw it happen with [ex-NFL player] Ray Rice. Now you can't pretend it away or give an excuse for it. Now, we have a responsibility to not let certain things slide. We're better than that and we've come too far. What are the biggest misconceptions about you and famous men, in general?